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Have you ever said, "I keep attracting the same type of person," or "I keep ending up in the same kind of environment" — and wondered why? I've been there too. And some of the best advice I ever got, back when I was trying to find a new partner, a stronger community, and better-aligned people, was this: You attract what you use to attract. Not always consciously. Not always intentionally. But the energy you put out, the standards you accept, the way you see yourself, and the

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